Saturday, March 21, 2015

Happy Retirement, Mama...Love, Heather, Amanda, and Dan



The time has finally come! Candice has headed off to work her final shift as a nurse.  She graduated nursing school back in 1977 and has worked like a dog ever since.

We had really hoped to have a family celebration however, we were told my a family member that this kind of an event is something co-works should plan, not extended family.

Well okay!  Heather and I were surprised by that info.  Neither of us are experienced in retirement party protocol.  Candice is part Gypsy and has traveled a lot in her life.  She has not worked for the same company for her entire nursing career.  Her current/last job she is leaving after only 7 months. Lets be realistically, we seriously doubt she will get that gold watch or any kind of a party from her fellow employees.  As for Heather, Amanda, and I, we want to say Great Job to Her and we really want to acknowledge all of her hard work as a nurse and as a single mother raising two daughters into wonderful grown women and for doing such a stellar job at both!

Heather and I have discussed with Candice our desire to do something special for her.  We have decided there is just so much stress right now and that we really want to wait until we arrive in Cuenca, Ecuador to celebrate Candice's Retirement, Heather and I's Anniversary, and the crazy effort required to make this move.  The stress that we are all under is pretty unbelievable!

What with packing, selling the car, the truck, and selling/donating 95-98% of all of our possessions is just plain hard.  Top all of that off with the visa process, the paperwork for the dogs, and all the expensive veterinarian visits... The list just seems to be endless.

We All Love You and We Are All So Proud of You Mama
Love, Heather, Amanda, and Dan



Thank you mom for your years of sacrifice
You juggled family and work so beautifully
When you came home and gave us hugs
We watched as you moved so gracefully

To show us what love is really made of
To show us the value of hard work
So enjoy your retirement mom
It’s something you have definitely earned.


Update:  Mom received 3 cakes at work and had a really enjoyable final work shift.  Congratulations Mom We Love You!!! :) 

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Saying Goodbye to My Best Friend, Christie



On Friday the 13th, I enjoyed a relaxing and fun day with my Best Friend Christie.  This was my last chance to see her before we head out to Ecuador.  We had a wonderful lunch at the Front Porch and Pie Shop, in Dunnellon, FL.  We each enjoyed a Bacon & Cheddar Cheese Burger (cooked medium), we both had Fries, and as a side I picked a Salad with Blue Cheese Dressing and Christie selected Cole Slaw.  To drink we both enjoyed a refreshing and taste Coca-Cola.  You can't eat here without ordering the pie. Christie tried the Pecan Pie and I tried the Chocolate Peanut Butter Pie.  OMGosh do they make the most amazing and out of this world yummy food.



Many months ago, I read the Fifty Shades of Grey book series.  I have been wanting to see the movie since it was released back on Valentines Day.  Now with all the crazy planning for the move I haven't had a chance to fit it into my day or night.



However, today was the perfect day to see the movie.  Christie had seen the movie the day it was release and was good with seeing it again.

We caught the 4:15pm showing in Crystal River, FL.  This was my first time visiting this theater and my first time inside our local mall.  I have to say that the roof of the mall looks just like the old Florida Festival near Sea World in Orlando, FL.





We enjoyed a little popcorn and soda during the movie.  We both enjoyed the movie and hope they continue making the remaining books into movies.  After the movie, we headed back to the house so Dan and I could load Christie up with all kinds of stuff that we are not taking with us on the move.  It was unbelievable hard to say goodbye to my Best Friend.  I know it's not a forever goodbye. However, it is still difficult.  Christie, Dan and I Love You and Are Going to Really Miss You.  You will always be My Best Friend and Sister. <3





Tuesday, March 17, 2015

Review: Chefs of Napoli II in Inverness, FL USA *Lunch*





We broke our promise.  We did want to go to the Front Porch Restaurant on March 16, 2015 but, they were closed.

After spending half a day running errands all three of us were stark raving hungry.  And the discussion ensued.  Where to eat.  I kept quiet and let the ladies hash it out.  I knew better than to help. :)

Within a minute it was decided and off we drove to Inverness, FL to Chef's of Napoli II.  Our previous visit was about two months prior and really only Candice enjoyed her meal during that time.  I was really hoping that I could find something on the menu better than what I or even Heather had consumed on the previous visit.

Once we were seated and had ordered our drinks we engaged the waiter about the menu. I questioned him about my strictly butter and cheese only greasy fettuccine Alfredo that I had on the previous visit.  Now, I have made homemade Fettuccine Alfredo maybe 40 times in my life. This waiter told me only Americans used cream in the sauce and real Italians didn't use cream in it. Hmmm? What?!! Only butter and cheese makes Alfredo sauce?  Since When??????

http://www.pasta-recipes-by-italians.com/history-of-fettucini-alfredo.html

THAT hyperlink explains it all my readers. The complete history of the sauce and it's origins and even a list of ingredients.

I knew he was lying to me!!! Thanks, Google, I love this inter-web thingy sometimes! :)

OK, so on to the discussion with the waiter... After being told the lie and receiving instruction on how I had it all wrong I decided to order something safe. Ravioli. And both ladies ordered the Baked Ziti.

As always, the bread they brought us was warm and fresh out of the oven.  It is homemade and Just Plain YUMMY AWESOME!  WE LOVE IT!  Even my Gluten Intolerant Wife that SHOULD BE AVOIDING the Bread and Pasta.  BTW she disobeys her health and eats it anyways.  The Gluten Force is Strong in that One :)  

The salads we ordered were tasty.  Love the mixed greens.

The plates arrived, The Ziti didn't look baked and it was lacking in cheese.  It may have even been cooked in a large pan and dished out but, we really couldn't tell. The sauce tasted like it came straight from a can with no seasoning or garlic added to it.  As for my Ravioli, there were only 3 in my bowl. I ate one and left the other two for the puppies. They tasted just like they came from the frozen section at Walmart.

And then the waiter produced a cheese grater and asked if anyone wanted cheese.  Mom got some and then Heather started to but the grinder made a loud noise and the waiter said sorry that it was broken.  He said he would be right back with another.  After 5 minutes he approached with a bowl of pre-grated cheese and offered some to Heather.  She declined and asked for some real cheese to be grated or shaved not something from a jar. The waiter made some rude noise and shuffled off never to return it seems.

Around this time an older customer left and the music playing changed as well. We went from 50's oldies to modern rock and it was turned up so loud we couldn't even hear ourselves talk. I asked a different waiter to turn it down please and he couldn't even hear me.  Finally, he understood and turned it down.

Heather was about halfway done with her meal when the manager brought us more of the delicious warm bread.  Heather lit into the man about the waiter and the attitude.  We got a lesson from the manager about the grinders and cheese.  Here we go again, I thought...

Then Heather mentioned that we are bloggers.  Things changed immediately.  He became friendly. Within seconds Heather got fresh grated cheese.  The situation seemed to be better and the ladies felt that the manager had made amends. So I thought we were done.  Then the waiter came over and apologized.  WOW!  It was obvious that this guy didn't want to but he understood his actions were wrong.  I might not like the food here but the manager was earning big points in our book.  However, the change wasn't because we were customers mistreated.  We were Bloggers!!!

The ladies decided to order some Tiramisu.  Wrong request.  It wasn't set, yet.  The manager came over and apologized.  In addition, he gave the ladies a piece of Limoncello Cake and a Slice of Cheesecake on the house.  Then as we were walking toward the door the manager chased after us and he gave me a few chucks of this huge Pecarano Cheese he had shown me.  After I expressed to him just how much I love it.

We left on a positive note.  The ladies thought the manager made a gallant effort to save the experience.  I don't often not tip as I have worked in restaurants and I understand the work required. This waiter got nothing from me.  I think he would do better to not correct customers with lies.  And to drop the attitude.  In fact, he might consider a different form of employment.

I would recommend that this restaurant needs to give the baker (the managers wife) a serious raise. The bread is some of the best we ever have had.

Improve your sauce.  Add some seasonings.  Even a marinara has seasonings.  The current sauce has no flavor, it tastes like cheap canned tomatoes and that's it.  Give a few more Ravioli, please. Seriously, three of them is a joke.  Bake your Ziti!  The definition of baked means to cook by dry heat in or as if in an oven and/or harden the cheese on top.  Oh...and add heavy cream to that Alfredo sauce, please.

I would give two shamrocks.  Heather gave them three.  And Candice gave three, as well. So I guess I was outvoted on this one. :)

Do you think it was the manager trying to make it right, as he would any other customer?  Or was it because Heather said we were Bloggers?  Thoughts???



Happy 1st Anniversary, Heather...Love, Dan

Our Beautiful Wedding Cake That Heather Made and Her Amazing Flowers Candice Made.
We Had Such a Wonderful Wedding Day!
We have packed 9 bags, so far for the move to Cuenca, Ecuador and it looks another 3 or 4 bags might be needed.  And we pared down so much!  I would have sworn that we could have it all done with only our allotted 9 x 70lbs bags.  Just Scary!

Today is a very special day for Heather and I.  It's not only a holiday (St. Patrick's Day) but it is also our First Wedding Anniversary.  We were Married in Cocoa Beach, Florida USA by our Best Friend Christie.

Heather and I were reviewing and talking about all the stress and tough times we faced during the last year.  My fight to regain my daughters and/or get to spend some time with them.  The move we did to bring my belonging's from Cheyenne to Orlando.  The move from Orlando, FL to Hernando, FL.  Our round-trip driving trip from Florida to Colorado to fight for my girls.  The loss of custody of my daughters.  And then my ex-wife refusing to allow me any communication with Emma and Danielle.   Plus, we were court ordered to begin reintegration therapy between Emma and Danielle and myself/Heather.  Our deciding to not move to Washington or Oregon but to Ecuador.  My Health Issues and Surgery.  The list goes on and on.

Then add to all of that the stress of two people who have known each other from as far back as when we were 15 and 16.  Plus, as adults in our 40's we are set in our own ways on how to do things.  We are discovering how to live with each other.  We try to grow, show each other our love, and it seems that everyday we both have to work on some part of our marriage.  Granted, it is work and sometimes neither of us wants to work on it.  There are times when we just want all of life's stresses to just go away.

We also have the added stress of my mother-in-law living with us, as well.  That's not a bad thing mind you, it just means we both have to consider her opinion in everything we discuss. In a way I feel that I married both of them.  Like it or not they did come attached.  Now, Candy is a blast to be around and she is very wise.  She acts as a good go between for us when we don't always have the same views.

Our required nightly reward for Heather and I is when we get to hold each other and talk for hours. We both feel like those teenagers that used to kiss and talk on that grassy hill behind Heather's townhouse in Winter Park, Florida.  It makes all the effort and work that our marriage requires, so worthwhile.

Another observation, I married my first wife for all the wrong reasons.  I definitely married the wrong woman, as well.  She was extremely immature and her only focus in life and the marriage was on herself, not the family unit.  There were a lot of things that I got wrong during that first marriage.  I learned a lot from it no matter how bad it was and yeah, I do own a lot of what happened.  But, this time I hit a gold mine.  I have finally found what I wanted for my whole life.  A partner that understands what it means to work together to be stronger.  It's the greatest thing I have ever experienced in life.

You could offer me vast amounts of money, or a supermodel...and I would just laugh at the offer.  It's not money, or anything else but love that makes this work. I finally found my soul mate.  I love you Heather, I always will!  Happy 1st Anniversary!  Dan

Our Unity Sand
White = Bride:  Heather
Blue = Groom:  Dan
Seashells = Our Officiant:  Christie



Saturday, March 14, 2015

We can't wait to move to Ecuador it's time to sell our 2009 Toyota Yaris Sedan w/Certified Warranty Low Miles - $6995 - Hernando, Florida





Sale Price:  $6995



We are honest sellers and we wanted to start with the only thing this 2009 Toyota Yaris needs and that is a set of new tires. We have discounted the price to reflect the cost of replacement tires. The car has been gone over by our mechanic and given a clean bill of health. He did give it an oil change, anew air filter, and we had the belts replaced. This car has no mechanical issues at all.

We are the second owners of the car, it was bought with 9k on the odometer. The car has been professionally detailed inside and out. Carpets were shampooed and steam cleaned and the paint was cleaned with a clay bar and then waxed. The car comes with factory Yaris branded floor mats front and back. 

There were a few small blemishes in the paint. All were only 2-3 millimeters in size. We have included photos to show them. There are no rips or damage to the interior. The car has never been in an accident and has always been properly maintained. The owner/driver is a 60 year old woman. Car has not been abused. And it is 100% Smoke-Free.


Toyota certified warranty coverage for the drive train (motor and transmission) is still present and won't expire until 100k or November 29th, 2015. All manuals and warranty papers are included and the title is free and clear and in hand. (Florida title)


The car comes with key less remote entry however the owner has lost the remote. A new one is easily obtained through Toyota, she is still looking for the remote and if it is located it will be included with the sale.

Runs like a champ. Amazing on Gas. The car gets over 30mpg city/hwy. The car is still being used a few times a week locally so the mileage may change slightly. I would drive this car across the US and back with no issues. Does not burn oil or consume any fluids or leak at all.


  • VIN (Vehicle Identification Number): JTDBT903791319594
  • Year: 2009
  • Transmission: Automatic
  • Make: Toyota
  • Body Type: Sedan
  • Model: Yaris
  • Warranty: Vehicle has an existing warranty
  • Trim: Sedan 4-Door
  • Vehicle Title: Clear
  • Engine: 1.5L 1497CC l4 GAS DOHC Naturally Aspirated
  • Options: MP3, CD Player, IPod Jack w/cord
  • Drive Type: FWD
  • Safety Features: Anti-Lock Brakes, Driver Airbag, Passenger Airbag, Side Airbags
  • Mileage: 84,032
  • Power Options: Air Conditioning, Cruise Control, Power Locks, Power Windows
  • Exterior Color: Charcoal Gray
  • Fuel Type: Gasoline
  • Interior Color: Charcoal Gray
  • For Sale By: Private Seller with Clean Title in Hand
  • Number of Cylinders: 4
  • Disability Equipped: No